http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-kl4hJ4j48s
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I can't focus on anything.
Mood: disturbed
Eating: chocolate
Drinking: milk
Listening to: guess what?
Reading: nothing
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
Sunday, December 11, 2011
To get a divorce or make do with a lover. That is the question.
I HATE STARTING A POST WITH AN APOLOGY BUT....
I realized that it's been a while since I made a post. I'M SO SORRAY.
The Christmas spirit finally hit me and I'm even more busy than usually. So many people, so little time xD
Theme of the day will be: Divorce.
My parents are divorced and have been for a very long time. I live one week at my mother's house and then one week at my father's but my address is at my father's house.
Divorce is such an ugly thing and I know lot's of people that aren't as lucky as I am. My parents can talk with each other without fighting and they're friendly. There's no problems even though some of the things my father do really annoy my mother.
Some of my friends parents can't even have a conversation without fighting. That is sad. They spend several years together and decided to marry and get children. And then, somehow, their love just ended. It may be that one of them stopped loving the other, if you can say that, long before but didn't want to end it. Then he/she met someone and they fell in love. And then it's bye-bye husband/wife and hello my new lover! YUM!
No seriously, that's just yikes. No one wants to be with someone who doesn't love them. So why not end it when you realize that it's not love but a habit? It makes no sense to me. I know my father did this once to his girlfriend and I had a very weird Christmas with her moving out of all sudden and then, maybe a month or two later, his new girlfriend moving in. It's not that I don't like her, I really do! It's just... Weird to have a new woman in the house, new rules, a new pet, and so on. I didn't see it coming.
I remember the day my parents told my sisters and I that they were getting divorced. I remember how much wee cried and how sad we were but today I'm happy about it. As I mentioned earlier my father have a new girlfriend. And my mother have a new boyfriend. And I can actually feel the love when my mother and her boyfriend are together. They've been in a relationship for God knows how long and they're still acting all lovey-dovey. I mean, as lovey-dovey as adults with children'll get. I think it's amazing that they can still be so much in love after such a long time. If I look at my father, the time that have passed from my parents getting divorced, he has had 3 girlfriends. My mother had one (she introduced to us, that is). There's so much more love between my mother and her boyfriend than there have ever been between my father and ANY of his girlfriends. But he is much more in love with his new girlfriend Gitte, than the others. I feel it and I hope my sisters do too.
But somehow children get stuck in the middle of a divorce. It happens every single time. The parents are fighting and there's no one to take care of the child. I've even experienced that one of the parents told the child not to do what the other said and they shouldn't believe a word either. That's not fair! It's not fair for the child OR the other parent. It annoys me that one would try to do that! Do not involve your children in a divorce like that. Tell them that you're getting a divorce and then save your arguments, hide your disgust, and put on a fake smile as long as there's people around. That is the easiest way to get through it. My mother once talked about her getting divorced from my father with a comment like "and then there's us, that can't stand looking at each other". I didn't feel that. I didn't feel that at all. And I'm glad I didn't. I had no opportunity to make one of them the bad guy and I didn't have to choose a side. I just felt sorry for myself. But I was younger back then and that might explain why I did not feel the tension.
I'll end this here. Sorry for my bad English but it's late and I can't focus.
Mood: tired
Eating: nothing
Drinking: water
Listening to: my mother in the background and the sound of my keyboard
Reading: math
I realized that it's been a while since I made a post. I'M SO SORRAY.
The Christmas spirit finally hit me and I'm even more busy than usually. So many people, so little time xD
Theme of the day will be: Divorce.
My parents are divorced and have been for a very long time. I live one week at my mother's house and then one week at my father's but my address is at my father's house.
Divorce is such an ugly thing and I know lot's of people that aren't as lucky as I am. My parents can talk with each other without fighting and they're friendly. There's no problems even though some of the things my father do really annoy my mother.
Some of my friends parents can't even have a conversation without fighting. That is sad. They spend several years together and decided to marry and get children. And then, somehow, their love just ended. It may be that one of them stopped loving the other, if you can say that, long before but didn't want to end it. Then he/she met someone and they fell in love. And then it's bye-bye husband/wife and hello my new lover! YUM!
No seriously, that's just yikes. No one wants to be with someone who doesn't love them. So why not end it when you realize that it's not love but a habit? It makes no sense to me. I know my father did this once to his girlfriend and I had a very weird Christmas with her moving out of all sudden and then, maybe a month or two later, his new girlfriend moving in. It's not that I don't like her, I really do! It's just... Weird to have a new woman in the house, new rules, a new pet, and so on. I didn't see it coming.
I remember the day my parents told my sisters and I that they were getting divorced. I remember how much wee cried and how sad we were but today I'm happy about it. As I mentioned earlier my father have a new girlfriend. And my mother have a new boyfriend. And I can actually feel the love when my mother and her boyfriend are together. They've been in a relationship for God knows how long and they're still acting all lovey-dovey. I mean, as lovey-dovey as adults with children'll get. I think it's amazing that they can still be so much in love after such a long time. If I look at my father, the time that have passed from my parents getting divorced, he has had 3 girlfriends. My mother had one (she introduced to us, that is). There's so much more love between my mother and her boyfriend than there have ever been between my father and ANY of his girlfriends. But he is much more in love with his new girlfriend Gitte, than the others. I feel it and I hope my sisters do too.
But somehow children get stuck in the middle of a divorce. It happens every single time. The parents are fighting and there's no one to take care of the child. I've even experienced that one of the parents told the child not to do what the other said and they shouldn't believe a word either. That's not fair! It's not fair for the child OR the other parent. It annoys me that one would try to do that! Do not involve your children in a divorce like that. Tell them that you're getting a divorce and then save your arguments, hide your disgust, and put on a fake smile as long as there's people around. That is the easiest way to get through it. My mother once talked about her getting divorced from my father with a comment like "and then there's us, that can't stand looking at each other". I didn't feel that. I didn't feel that at all. And I'm glad I didn't. I had no opportunity to make one of them the bad guy and I didn't have to choose a side. I just felt sorry for myself. But I was younger back then and that might explain why I did not feel the tension.
I'll end this here. Sorry for my bad English but it's late and I can't focus.
Mood: tired
Eating: nothing
Drinking: water
Listening to: my mother in the background and the sound of my keyboard
Reading: math
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Paradise
I was walking down the city streets and this dude walked up to me and started talking about hunger and poverty. It happened twice just today.
I could go rambling about this topic forever but that'll be tomorrow or something. today I'll stick with linking a song.
It's a cover but I actually like it very, very much. Enjoy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3wEFBgq4ZEA
Mood: thoughtful
Eating: nothing
Drinking; nothing, soon to be milk
Listening to: Another Day in Paradise
Reading: nothing
I could go rambling about this topic forever but that'll be tomorrow or something. today I'll stick with linking a song.
It's a cover but I actually like it very, very much. Enjoy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3wEFBgq4ZEA
Mood: thoughtful
Eating: nothing
Drinking; nothing, soon to be milk
Listening to: Another Day in Paradise
Reading: nothing
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